@ Gina: “Just ask my kids” is the phrase that caught me. It is exactly that, what inspired me to write the post. I am even too emberassed to write in the post how often I’m yelling for nothing, or giving a lecture before finding out what happened exactly. But I’ll put it here in writing:
“I yelled at my daughter and friend, because things did not go exactly as I wanted them to go. They were not even to blame for it, but just the nearest person at the time”
So, I have said it.

Isn’t it terrifying and eye opening when we actually look up definitions to our defects? Ugh.

I am probably the most impatient person on earth and yes, it’s probably because I am terribly selfish and need to control, which is an illusion anyway but who cares right? And I can also be insensitive and definitely overbearing, just ask my kids. Arrogant is the hardest one to swallow but it could be a possibility, I’ll have to take a look at that one.

Thanks for posting this, it puts things back in perspective. A friend sent me here, so clearly I’m not the only one who knows about my lack of patience.

Thank goodness for friends, especially the ones who can call us on our crap.

Hope you are doing well! The new look for your site is inspiring! And I agree that impatience can really throw off our intentions and the results of any goal at hand. Thanks for sharing.

Kellie